tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3439380262226647650.post7026392955853997401..comments2024-02-13T15:58:05.317-08:00Comments on My so-called FABULOUS life: The Single LifeBriannahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09930781699703723927noreply@blogger.comBlogger32125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3439380262226647650.post-50518996103569884862009-11-13T06:53:13.801-08:002009-11-13T06:53:13.801-08:00I like you post - There is no reason why you shoul...I like you post - There is no reason why you should be rushing. Let the chips fall where they may. Live and enjoy your life - too many married men and women regret being because they realize it is not what they expected. Bite the dust when you are fully ready - getting married or being in a relationship should be a breeze if you are with the right one.<br /><br />A.DuSanthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00539010040889545687noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3439380262226647650.post-5371478421588951832009-11-10T12:02:50.410-08:002009-11-10T12:02:50.410-08:00I don't think you are fine being single. This ...I don't think you are fine being single. This is the umpteenth time I have seen you whine about it. And you whine too much...Googlehttp://google.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3439380262226647650.post-73626027686974169262009-10-30T20:32:13.180-07:002009-10-30T20:32:13.180-07:00Question: "Why are you still Single"?
...Question: "Why are you still Single"?<br /><br />Answer: Starting in a happy party face (or appropriate situation face), then slowly change into a deadpan serious face and say..."I'm thinking of having a sex change! Please don't tell anyone."...turn slowly to hide your shame, and look away as though a tear is welling up. Turn back with seriously (someone just died face).<br /><br />Then, depending on the person...walk away...or bust up laughing.<br /><br />Problem solved.<br /><br />You have to turn it back on yourself in a funny way. Has to be about you or their dumbass question wins even if they are innocently ignorant!Say It Aint So Joenoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3439380262226647650.post-28813569071934522102009-10-30T13:25:06.051-07:002009-10-30T13:25:06.051-07:00You're right sorry you answered the question a...You're right sorry you answered the question as well. However she wanted a clever response and that wasn't clever! Lol j/k .....Not judging anyone just speaking from the heartDustnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3439380262226647650.post-57275060307022676192009-10-30T06:40:16.917-07:002009-10-30T06:40:16.917-07:00No, Dust, I also answered her question quite point...No, <b>Dust</b>, I also answered her question quite pointedly, thank you very much. If you're gonna be judging, do it squarely, <i>man</i>.anonymousnupehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15452150857948004054noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3439380262226647650.post-74966410682196048562009-10-30T00:03:47.706-07:002009-10-30T00:03:47.706-07:00Best reply: Because my current equation for Joy is...Best reply: Because my current equation for Joy is God plus me.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3439380262226647650.post-16922070135248143162009-10-29T23:57:04.169-07:002009-10-29T23:57:04.169-07:00Sounds like you're doing the right thing by ju...Sounds like you're doing the right thing by just going out and having fun. Life is too short not to have a good time when we're not working. My God, think about it. Why spend your free time away from work with someone who you can't be free and away from work with. Hmmm! If you have a super busy schedule then you know it's better to be by yourself and make the most of your free time than to spend it with someone that brings more stress than good company into your life. Also, It's a weird thing. You won't find what you are looking for until you stop looking or analyzing. You have to be willing to be by yourself in order to be "in the moment" around other people. Mr./Mrs. Right won't be attracted to you if you're not "in the moment," at the right time.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3439380262226647650.post-19436905370897418172009-10-28T19:37:38.957-07:002009-10-28T19:37:38.957-07:00@ Dust...sorry, 1 for 2 pal. But a good suck up e...@ Dust...sorry, 1 for 2 pal. But a good suck up effort.<br /><br />Since we, bri and I, share this blog then let me reply on her and I behalfs.<br /><br />When anyone asks "why are you still single"....the only answer is...."Well, if your husband will stop calling me, then I might have time to find an available man"!<br /><br />Sand Jumper is fine. Lots of time.Tyronenoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3439380262226647650.post-31586797223103333632009-10-28T16:42:39.560-07:002009-10-28T16:42:39.560-07:00Here's new line:
I'm still single because...Here's new line:<br />I'm still single because I'm waiting for a man who's better than my best friend Jasmine's husband...and he's pretty darn perfect! ;)<br /><br />i kid, i kid....sorta...Jasminehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11408871840670005388noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3439380262226647650.post-38516592791346277862009-10-28T13:33:17.415-07:002009-10-28T13:33:17.415-07:00In reading your blog again, I realized pretty much...In reading your blog again, I realized pretty much everyone missed the point of your blog except Bianca. You just wanted a clever answer to respond to the question, why are you still single? Most people gave a reason as to why you are still single. I'll touch on both topics.<br /><br />First to answer the question, it may not be clever but it's simple and to the point. B you're single because you want to be....in all honesty, most fabulous people are single by choice, let's face it fabulous people have "options." <br /><br />You mentioned in the blog, that you don't feel like your missing out on anything. Well I don't buy that, what woman doesn't want the compaionship of a good God fearing man? Someone you can trust with your dreams & fears, a man that knows you better than you know yourself. A provider, a partner, and a man that will love you unconditionally. (do I need to tap into Maya Angelo side?) I haven't touched on the intamate & romantic part yet. For real, the guy I described, there are not that many of us out there. Can you honestly say your not missing out on that?<br /><br />I say you're single because you want to be for a few reason. The main one is, Bri you are a world class athlete! That means you posses (spelling???) certain qualities. Your discplined and dedicated. A person like that will make time for a man if that is what she truly wants. We all make time for things we want in life & a relationship is no different. As far as God still working on you, that's an ongoing process, he is going to work on you whether single or in a relationship. I can say this because I have a relatinship with God, and he never leaves our side.<br /><br />Looks like I'm 2 for 2 on the comments LolDustnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3439380262226647650.post-68588807084137307432009-10-28T11:16:49.941-07:002009-10-28T11:16:49.941-07:00Because it's better to be feared than loved. O...Because it's better to be feared than loved. Or maybe because you're always over in Europe during prime wedding season? Both of those answers would make about as much sense as the question, which is none. I'd never ask someone that, not just because it's none of my business, but because it's a rhetorical question that more than anything else implies there's something wrong with the person you're asking. People either find someone who lives up to their personal expectations or they don't, that's life. And if they haven't, and they're either content with that state of affairs or they decide to do something to change it, that's their choice. Most people project their own relationship problems on to others anyway. Not everyone wakes up despondent that we haven't found someone yet. Life isn't about having some endless checklist that needs to be filled out in order to be happy.Jon Lustighttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02143929729231272461noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3439380262226647650.post-82813008108647366962009-10-28T08:46:19.043-07:002009-10-28T08:46:19.043-07:00@ Brianna...I do have my own blog. Thanks for ask...@ Brianna...I do have my own blog. Thanks for asking. It is called "My So-Called Fabulous Blog". <br /><br />Here is the url: http://mysocalledfabulouslife.blogspot.com/<br /><br />You should come by sometime!<br /><br />:)!!!!!Tyronenoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3439380262226647650.post-20354943756338972192009-10-28T06:21:43.847-07:002009-10-28T06:21:43.847-07:00Good Post. I think the simplest answer is "Wh...Good Post. I think the simplest answer is "Why should I be boobooed up right now?" Put the question back on the other person and let them explain their foolishness.lol. <br /><br />Of course I don't know you personally, but I'd also assume you have a lot on your plate right now. Is it a possibility that you don't truly have the time to be committed to someone like that right now?Slim Jacksonhttp://www.threewaystotakeit.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3439380262226647650.post-37097328937689844912009-10-28T05:01:51.791-07:002009-10-28T05:01:51.791-07:00The patience is hard, I the know this every day no...The patience is hard, I the know this every day not for the same reasons as you but for my dream which is to live in the United States, I'm single too, I say to myself that it's not urgent for the moment!!<br />I'm sure that you'll find somebody good, beautiful, kind... as you with whom you'll be very happy ;-)JTS4Hhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09602998909580550304noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3439380262226647650.post-90353274560615652772009-10-27T22:41:58.416-07:002009-10-27T22:41:58.416-07:00@daniel...yes! i like prime rib
@tyrone...always ...@daniel...yes! i like prime rib<br /><br />@tyrone...always so much to say...just a suggestion--maybe your own blog?<br /><br />@jo...i totally see your point<br /><br />@#2...you are so right, because i have developed myself so much in just the last five years.Briannahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09930781699703723927noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3439380262226647650.post-19774540816313323482009-10-27T21:30:24.106-07:002009-10-27T21:30:24.106-07:00Too funny!
Look at all you saps who want to w*n...Too funny! <br /><br />Look at all you saps who want to w*nk her! <br /><br />Just what she wanted by posting this BS.<br /><br />All the men line up to court her Royal Highness! <br /><br />I withdraw my entire previous post!<br /><br />p.s. Except the part about her inner need about her dad.Tyronenoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3439380262226647650.post-3003477545177376002009-10-27T21:08:08.538-07:002009-10-27T21:08:08.538-07:00I'm still laughing at Dust's comment...I&#...I'm still laughing at Dust's comment...I've heard that before, but his was a much cleaner version lol.<br /><br />My take on the Single Factor is that being single for a while enables you to get to know yourself NOW. Too many people "realize who they are or aren't" after they've married...TOO LATE! It's more important to figure that stuff out before you get hitched...otherwise you'll end up resenting your partner and regretting your vows.#2 Fannoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3439380262226647650.post-36503986788636506102009-10-27T21:00:17.481-07:002009-10-27T21:00:17.481-07:00Ok...forget the "if I wasn't married"...Ok...forget the "if I wasn't married" line...<br />We can go with the "long distance relationships don't work for me" line. :-)old teammatehttp://www.lifewave.com/speedspecialistnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3439380262226647650.post-14222333868643386902009-10-27T19:48:05.288-07:002009-10-27T19:48:05.288-07:00I love your blog Brianne. I have been divorced sin...I love your blog Brianne. I have been divorced since 1995 and I will NEVER get married again. What bugs me is that once married, you only have the option of 'divorced' on paperwork...I prefer 'single, head of household' :-0} If a great guy comes along I will be open to that, but I looooove being single...go where I want, with whomever I want, whenever I want. Call me selfish? That's ok...I prefer single...and loving every minute of it! Enjoy it girl.Jo Carpenternoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3439380262226647650.post-45099663423303735902009-10-27T18:48:18.954-07:002009-10-27T18:48:18.954-07:00Actually @Daniel... sand jumper and I would be a g...Actually @Daniel... sand jumper and I would be a good match. Only problem is, is that our two enormous ego's would never allow us to be in the same room together at the same time, not too mention the same blog! <br /><br />.....and I'm white, and she doesn't like white guys because she feels she needs to respect her dad in marrying black. I highly doubt he would care and would want SJ to just be happy no matter what color the skin of the one she eventually picks.<br /><br />Dust above, nailed this one partially. And I can say this because I am the same as SJ. Some of us grow up being taught by society, our families, our friends, the media, and all that go into forming the way we are, that life should be a fairytale. Life is looking for prince charming or whichever movie star was named above. Perfect this, and perfect that! And to some life is a fairytale. But to most life is not. <br /><br />SJ is living a fairytale life in many ways, so maybe her "fairytale" guy will show up to complete the brand.<br /><br />But what I've somewhat recently have reflected to find is, back to Dust's point, that people like SJ and myself who constantly pass up amazingly beautiful / handsome, smart, rich, successful, best friends, people in our lives, because of some dumbass fairytale checklist that others have instilled in us......we just might have missed the one god sent to us!<br /><br />I refuse to settle, just as she is doing. Perhaps we both have a self worth higher than reality?<br /><br />Nawwww! There has to be a plan from higher up! And if not, single life is pretty darn great!<br /><br />I as I'm sure she has, has been blessed to get to know many wonderful people in the process.<br /><br />Just not "the one", yet!Tyronenoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3439380262226647650.post-36483896000646934762009-10-27T17:40:30.035-07:002009-10-27T17:40:30.035-07:00Well I wouldn’t say that it is totally asinine. ...Well I wouldn’t say that it is totally asinine. People just generally care, regardless if you have heard it a million zillion times. The question stems from the unconscious thought that most people believe that beautiful people are out of their league of possibilities and that beautiful people belong with beautiful people.. And when they see these people still available, the question begs to be asked; why are you single? <br /><br />However, that being said, you are just like most intelligible people, why settle for chop liver when you know prime rib is just around the corner. Why date? What purpose does it serve? Is there some un-written law that says that you have to be? You hang in there; your prince charming is out there.<br /><br />You know, the funny thing is people tend to believe they have a right to ask the question or in that matter comment and offer their opinion.. Its likes, people will never say that you are too fat or that you are gaining too much weight. But, they feel they have every right to tell you not to lose too much.. Go figure and I digress. <br /><br />DanielAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3439380262226647650.post-78406744300607492052009-10-27T16:34:06.132-07:002009-10-27T16:34:06.132-07:00Ms. Glenn,
And here I was a thinkin' all along...Ms. Glenn,<br />And here I was a thinkin' all along it was because "Tyrone" hasn't asked yet ...Danielnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3439380262226647650.post-86743414072205762522009-10-27T15:00:16.127-07:002009-10-27T15:00:16.127-07:00Ms. Glenn, just call me the black George Clooney -...Ms. Glenn, just call me the black George Clooney -- lolol...Farad Porteehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14239341270888030163noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3439380262226647650.post-26711462912891676362009-10-27T14:42:30.552-07:002009-10-27T14:42:30.552-07:00Hey Ms. Glenn! I'm 21 and there are times when...Hey Ms. Glenn! I'm 21 and there are times when I ask myself why have I been single all my life? I realized that if I couldn't answer this question on my own, then only God knows why. I chose not worry about it until He says "times up". You're right patience is a virtue. Stay true to yourself and don't settle for less. Thanks for reminding me!<br /><br />-WesAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3439380262226647650.post-44759259142639012322009-10-27T14:36:29.426-07:002009-10-27T14:36:29.426-07:00@Njou...I like that---TAKE a man. :)
@Farad...ooo...@Njou...I like that---TAKE a man. :)<br /><br />@Farad...ooohhh, you have 7 years on me so there is definitely something wrong with you. :)<br /><br />@nupe...good one!<br /><br />@dust...so deep I'm still processing. haha.Briannahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09930781699703723927noreply@blogger.com