tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3439380262226647650.post3796530984665232112..comments2024-02-13T15:58:05.317-08:00Comments on My so-called FABULOUS life: He's just not that into...Briannahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09930781699703723927noreply@blogger.comBlogger20125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3439380262226647650.post-50188671334320983292009-02-16T09:19:00.001-08:002009-02-16T09:19:00.001-08:00Oh and your gutzy... all I have to say for my stor...Oh and your gutzy... all I have to say for my story is Stevie! Ha!Jennie Finchhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01940748197578893980noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3439380262226647650.post-20477328746766693322009-02-16T09:19:00.000-08:002009-02-16T09:19:00.000-08:00Hi Bri Bri-So stinkin funny! I love you!Your outf...Hi Bri Bri-<BR/>So stinkin funny! I love you!<BR/>Your outfits look "B" Bomb! For Bri, for Bomb, or Bomb Squad! <BR/>Keep it going!!! <BR/>xoJennie Finchhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01940748197578893980noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3439380262226647650.post-45281195040225652302009-02-15T08:53:00.000-08:002009-02-15T08:53:00.000-08:00Bri! I haven't been to your blog in ages! I love...Bri! I haven't been to your blog in ages! I love reading them and I realized I miss you!!Kiajeenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05307362667761681681noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3439380262226647650.post-30728832778012773952009-02-14T11:07:00.000-08:002009-02-14T11:07:00.000-08:00I think there's a temptation to fool ourselves int...I think there's a temptation to fool ourselves into thinking that there's actually a good way to end a meaningful relationship; there isn't. As long as I can remember I've tried to be honest, because I know that I would feel guilty for maybe getting a girl's hopes up when I know that it's going to end sooner or later. Having said that, I've been in relationships which were seemingly going great one day and over the next. I've sat dumbfounded while listening to some variation on 'I'd really been meaning to tell you but the time just never seemed right' enough times that I know it doesn't make you feel better than the alternative.<BR/>All I know is that I'm not feeling pathetic today and I'm not moping about the past. There's some girl out there that I'm meant to be with, and I'm one of those people who believes that somehow I'll know she's the one as soon as I meet her. I'm thinking about her today, whoever and wherever she is.Jon Lustighttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02143929729231272461noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3439380262226647650.post-48519190077364366282009-02-14T08:48:00.000-08:002009-02-14T08:48:00.000-08:00I'd just like to remind everyone that these things...I'd just like to remind everyone that these things happened over a course of 10 years...I re-read it and then started worrying I looked a lot worse than I really am! haha.Briannahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09930781699703723927noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3439380262226647650.post-61574384357573467972009-02-14T01:02:00.000-08:002009-02-14T01:02:00.000-08:00Thank you Marcus.. You've just answered a nagging ...Thank you Marcus.. You've just answered a nagging question that's been on my mind. And even though deep down I already knew the answer, it baffles me every time.<BR/><BR/>I continuously ask myself the question, why intelligent beings would constantly act foolishly when we're in love. Women are such emotional beings. We let our emotions cloud everything. Our choices, our decisions, our judgement.. and the list goes on. *smh*<BR/><BR/>Controlling our emotions would protect us from many a "heartbreak".t.v.https://www.blogger.com/profile/09520453763962154292noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3439380262226647650.post-80906463924203682722009-02-13T20:31:00.000-08:002009-02-13T20:31:00.000-08:00Bri, those experiences are what your 20's are for ...Bri, those experiences are what your 20's are for and we all need them to learn and grow. Believe me dating is easier in your 30's things are sooo much better and it is fun to reflect on the past and have a good laugh =) I can be your mentor, although I am still single I am loving life!! Fun, flirty and thirty!!Unknownhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13890637248919442468noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3439380262226647650.post-2705423502299948652009-02-13T19:46:00.000-08:002009-02-13T19:46:00.000-08:00Freedom,I'm sorry to have gotten so serious on you...Freedom,<BR/>I'm sorry to have gotten so serious on you.<BR/>but trust me that's the last "downer" comment you'll see me post for a while. Even surrounded by so much negativity and heartache there is always a reason to smile, always a reason to laugh :)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3439380262226647650.post-88568704230665952662009-02-13T17:19:00.000-08:002009-02-13T17:19:00.000-08:00Ms. Glenn,Guess I should be considerate and say so...Ms. Glenn,<BR/>Guess I should be considerate and say something about your own words, huh? Lol.<BR/>Your honesty is refreshing. Made me laugh thinking of the crazy things we do in our own minds.<BR/>With that, I dedicate the sentiments of this song to you. It’s by (the utterly beautiful) Heather Headley – <BR/>“In My Mind”<BR/><BR/> http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7lzlitXYVfkAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3439380262226647650.post-70971378004613004312009-02-13T16:45:00.000-08:002009-02-13T16:45:00.000-08:00Believe me - I've been there, done that with a lot...Believe me - I've been there, done that with a lot of this stuff, too. It wasn't until I read that book that I had my (in the words of Oprah) "ah ha moment" and decided to take action. Of course this meant a pretty long period of time in which I was single, but it all turned out to be worth it.<BR/><BR/>I stopped doing the wondering/hoping/making excuses for him/wanting to change him game and started being real with myself - I didn't give anyone the chance to pull that crap with me anymore. It was either they were into me and working at showing me or they were out (now I sound like Heidi Klum, what's up w/me???).<BR/><BR/>Ironically, my husband (remember we were friends for several years before becoming a couple) thought I was too quick to get rid of guys and should've been a little more flexible.<BR/><BR/>We're both glad I wasn't. :-)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3439380262226647650.post-66459177931883828002009-02-13T15:28:00.000-08:002009-02-13T15:28:00.000-08:00Dang Brit_Brat!!! I really hate to hear about your...Dang Brit_Brat!!! I really hate to hear about your situation. This is the first time that I can recall in which I regret reading one of your comments. I've been on this blog for almost a year and your comments have always made me laugh. I almost took it as a joke until i read your second comment. I wish you the best.<BR/><BR/>FreedomAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3439380262226647650.post-79267147886931011982009-02-13T14:05:00.000-08:002009-02-13T14:05:00.000-08:00thanks DanielI believe it might have been too much...thanks Daniel<BR/>I believe it might have been too much info but oh well<BR/>I would say life is what it is<BR/>but naw<BR/>it is what you make it.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3439380262226647650.post-48317061170734213542009-02-13T13:22:00.000-08:002009-02-13T13:22:00.000-08:00Ms. Glenn,Your Sis made me get all “wet-eyed”.You ...Ms. Glenn,<BR/>Your Sis made me get all “wet-eyed”.<BR/>You know how the video of Beyonce’s “If I Were A Boy” starts? “Intimacy. Honesty. Commitment. You. Me. Us.”<BR/>The pain of the opposites of the aforementioned qualities/outlook is staggering when you personally experience it. My heart, in sincere honesty, goes out to you Brit_Brat. Personal betrayal, when you’ve held to the commitment, hurts so badly.<BR/>Enjoy the Brownie. I have unfortunately eaten a lot of them.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3439380262226647650.post-17232157127241862972009-02-13T11:17:00.000-08:002009-02-13T11:17:00.000-08:00Wow Bri, VERY open blog you have here. I'm glad yo...Wow Bri, VERY open blog you have here. I'm glad you recognize some of the mistakes you've made. Unfortunately, when it comes to relationships where emotions, or even just ego, are involved, people tend to repeat the same mistakes over and over again because the emotions cloud your judgement. Hopefully, you go back and read this blog again next time you think about flying accross the country or "accidently" running into someone. As I tell all my female friends, let a man pursue you and let him push the relationship forward. If you end up as the aggressor then you're just asking to take a dagger to the heart. Cuz even a man who isn't that into you is gonna take what he's given and let you believe what you want to believe until the point comes that he either straight up don't wanna to talk to you anymore or you have a forced dysfunctional relationship. If he ain't willing to pursue you and eventually try to make you his one and only girl, then he isn't the man for you and he definately ain't worth any heartache, because if he's not that into you at the beginning he's not gonna be in love with you at the end.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3439380262226647650.post-65965653971128838222009-02-13T08:33:00.000-08:002009-02-13T08:33:00.000-08:00@ brit...ok, you didn't need to get all serious he...@ brit...ok, you didn't need to get all serious here and take it there. i was just talking about little things, not total losers who should be punched in the face. you win...you can have the brownie.<BR/><BR/>@ anonymous#1...i think you're a man. am i right? you can tell us your experiences too!<BR/><BR/>@coach...yes, they are funny NOW. lol. not so much when they happened.<BR/><BR/>@anonymous#2...yes, looks like you are being taken through the ringer as we speak! well all i can say is that i speak from experience so you just gotta wave buh-bye!!!<BR/><BR/>@anonymous#3...amen. that's what it is for me too--i think i'm too darn special and that there is no way these idiots aren't recognizing that! here's to love finding me...Briannahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09930781699703723927noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3439380262226647650.post-78077918103513629862009-02-13T03:40:00.000-08:002009-02-13T03:40:00.000-08:00I think I could add at least a dozen of scenarios ...I think I could add at least a dozen of scenarios to both book and the movie.Besides the typical male cowardice that makes them say clichés like "you're just too good for me"or "too smart" or "too beautiful" "or there will be someone more deserving for you" or simply "too dumb" to believe any of these, some really both pathetic and crazy things happened to me and I totally blame myself for letting my pride take over my intelligence and lead me astray so often by making me think that I was so special and that those things dont happen to special women ,but they actually do and especially to those independent, strong and assertive.But one thing I know as a Christian is that we reap what we saw and that one doesn't have to look for love because love finds us. When there is love you dont have to fight to prove you're right love meaning never having to fight for love because love alone doesn't exist without proofs of love and thats precisely why we should always know when "he is just not that into us". In French the movie is called "ce que pensent les hommes" (what men think)which lets us see the question from another perspective.I really see myself in you and believe me when the moment is right, the right person will find you and the only thing you'll have to do is love.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3439380262226647650.post-47481034586618786592009-02-13T02:55:00.000-08:002009-02-13T02:55:00.000-08:00Wow! I have to admit I think I'm going through it ...Wow! I have to admit I think I'm going through it now. There's this guy I've known for a 1.5 years now. At first we'd see eachother atleast once a week cause he's in a different state and travels a lot with his profession. (so do I). I use to get text phone calls and a picture everydy. Now it's like I see him every 2-3 months. I volunteer to come to his events but he "forgets" to tell me all the details about them. And now I find out he may b with an older woman who he use to travel with a lot with for work, but I have no proof to confront him about it. This is really an eye opener. It's like daing. He was too perfect, am I gone end up single for the rest of my life? It's so looking like it.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3439380262226647650.post-25037747337906644002009-02-13T02:41:00.000-08:002009-02-13T02:41:00.000-08:00You are sooo true. We put ourselves through the s...You are sooo true. We put ourselves through the scenarios you have outlined (funny when you read them). Maybe one day it will the whole dating/boyfriend thing will get easier.Coachhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15319527061827994256noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3439380262226647650.post-60906607672360240372009-02-12T23:51:00.000-08:002009-02-12T23:51:00.000-08:00i commend you...it takes alot of guts to admit to ...i commend you...it takes alot of guts to admit to mistakes in the past.... i think we all have been there, man or woman, but we are just to stubborn to accept the truth...Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3439380262226647650.post-49605522777107836842009-02-12T22:48:00.000-08:002009-02-12T22:48:00.000-08:00ok so I'm wondering....did you steal one of mine a...ok so I'm wondering....<BR/>did you steal one of mine and try to pass it off as your own or did the same thing happen to both of us? Cuz I'm sure the 5th one JUST happened to me recently! haha<BR/>ok here's mine. you ready? cuz its a doooozy!!<BR/>how about everyday you get up, take care of the house, the bills, the kids, the cleaning, the cooking and think your husband appreciates all that you do. you think he's out there working hard and going to school, hustling because he loves you.<BR/>come to find out he's been lying the whole time about work and school and has really been doing GOD KNOWS WHAT for 3 whole months.<BR/>yeah.....he's just not that in to you.<BR/>:(Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com